Lately the bottoms I've had the privilege of bedding all have described my fingers with the word “magic”, so I figured I must be doing something right. Might as well write down what I've learned from a lifetime of chasing skirt. My experience, while like, considerable, is of course not universal; bodies work differently, there’s no fixed sex manual, et cetera usw. All of the following applies alike to cis women, trans women with neovag, enbies, and transmasc folk with hole, with little difference—neovag tends to need more care for girth and depth of penetration, and androgenic HRT tends to yield plump, sensitive clitorises; that's about it. Some people easily get super wet, others barely even moist, some people prefer this or that type of stimulation, some orgasm, some don't; but in my experience these traits have much more variation within the genders than between them.

Daguerreotype: Arai Takashi, “Ōsaka-yuri 2,” 2008.

Content notes for this piece: Explicit discussion of sex; historical lesbian art, some of it graphic; BDSM mentions.

When I think of folk I've been with who were equipped with a vagina, almost all can be clearly classified into two general types: the clitoris-oriented, and the penetration-oriented.

My lesbian experience with topping without testosterone

Content warnings for this one: Text addressed at transfeminine folk; explicit discussion of sex and kink, including sexual experiences, intended as informative rather than erotic but rich in detail; discussion of HRT, surgeries, genitals, gender feelings; reports of a lively sex life; discussion of low libido when perceived as a negative, and of girlcock as positive; corny 5th-grade humour.